Hello Friends! Welcome to my site!

Something must’ve caught your eye! You’re here, and I am so happy about that! Aside from the practical topics I may write about, this blog is about so much more than the day to day life. I want to be a voice for the voiceless beause I once was voiceless myself. Honestly my finger tips tremble as I write this, and fear has held me back from so many opportunities in my life that I no longer want to miss out on. I know that through my pain and experience I am able to speak into other peoples lives in a way others may not be able to, and I have had to face things in a couple years that people may or may not face in a lifetime.

“Substantial-Beauty” isn’t just about physical appearance, the makeup we wear, the nutritious foods we may eat, or being fit. For me, beauty is about knowing who God created YOU to be. Beauty is about finding joy in the midst of trial, and how we can use that trial to reach our highest potential in life. Beauty is about being vulnerable when the world tells us that being vulnerable is weak. Beauty is about not letting anything shake your worth, value, and identity! I am here to expose the truth about how we have a choice in the midst of circumstances we may not be able to control, and how that choice can make or break us.

There is a choice to be made to rise up, and take control of your life!

We as humans are imperfect, and we live in a fallen world where we will all experience pain, and some circumstances we may choose to put ourselves in, and others we may be a victim of, but that does not mean we need to choose to victimize ourselves for the rest of our lives. You can be a victim, or a victor.

Which one will you choose even when everything turns against you, and the inevitable happens?

Stop waiting for someone else to say that you count, that you matter, that you have worth, that you have a voice, a place that you are called.

Didn’t you know, darling?

The one who knit you together in your mother’s womb is the one singing these words over you.

You are chosen.

– Sarah Bessey

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